Let's see well Liberty started childcare where I work and she made some new friends and has enjoyed it at times, but she has also gotten a little more attached to momma. She is talking more and saying clearer words more too since she has started at the childcare. She turned 2 in July we just didn't a little family party for her on her bday nothing to big. It was from the Dr. Seuss book "One Fish, Two Fish, Red Fish, Blue Fish". I made all birthday decorations and her birthday shirt she got to take a Ice Cream cone birthday cupcakes to childcare and celebrate her birthday with her new friends. And she got 2 other cakes that mimi made her too. She had a good birthday party. She is my sunshine and the reason I keep going and going.
Let's see Autumn she hasn't gotten to do to much over the summer which I feel sorry for her but hope to make it up to her and we get a place of our own soon. She has gotten to go swimming a couple of times and hope to take her a couple more before schools starts. She is excited about starting 2nd grade in her new school this year. She is my sunshine and the reason I keep going and going.
Well as far as me i'm just working, working and working and taking care of 2 great daughters that I love dearly. Still trying to get this divorce over with and hoping it all goes good on August 9th for court and alson on September 14th on back child support court. Yea it seems alot and stressful but I have been managing good and even been better without the person in my life and the girls.
But I have gotten some things thrown up at me so I wrote a little note to set things straight:
If you don't like what is about to be said in my note then don't read it and especially don't comment! This is my facebook page and I can write on it anything I want. And it's not dirty laundry and it's not drama IT'S THE TRUTH!
nd a churc
Well I got it thrown up at me that I got left for another woman, but the TRUTH IS AND THE REAL TRUTH! Is that I got tired of being VERBALLY ABUSED and plus tired of seeing and hearing MY DAUGHTER GET VERBALLY ABUSED! And YES I should of done something about it along time ago but I wanted my marriage to work but the truth is he verbally abused his family and the cheating he just added in on it.
All I asked was for him to change his attitude and quit cussing me out and his kids out and he got all made and walked out and abandoned his family and kids and lied and cheated instead of ending the marriage the right way. Yes I made the mistake giving him chances and chances and believing his lies. I listened to him instead of others that our there for me and my girls and always will be too. I regret listening to him back in November and all three of those months. I believed his excuse's when he got caught instead of listening to his mistress on top of it. So know that i'm not listening to his lies or his excuse's or believing anything he says I realize i'm better off without him and I DESERVE ALOT BETTER.
But I can say one thing I did not abandon my kids. I'm taking care of them like a parent should: SUPPORTING THEM FINANCIALLY, GIVING THEM SECURITY AND STABILITY IN THEIR LIFE. I've read and seen where their is several types of abuse you have: Psychological abuse, Sexual abuse, Child neglect, and Physical abuse.
1. Psychological abuse which is emotional abuse and is in the patterns of behavior that impairs emotional development or sense of self-worth. This includes constant criticism, threats, or rejection, as well as withholding love, support, or guidance. Lets see my kids get criticized and rejected and not being loved and isn't getting support or getting any guidance. I have picked up the pieces to make sure my girls don't feel rejected, loved, supported and getting the guidance they need and norturing.
2. Child Neglect which is failure to provide for a child's basic needs. Neglect is: Physical (failure to provide necessary food or shelter, or lack of appropriate supervision), Medical (failure to provide necessary medical or mental health treatment), Educational (failure to educate a child or attend to special education needs), and Emotional (inattention to a child's emotional needs, failure to provide psychological care, or permitting the child to use alcohol or other drugs). I have picked up the pieces of making sure my children have food, shelter and lots of supervision, and they have medical insurance and treatment, and they go to school everyday and to school functions, and I have for sure picked up the pieces of their emotional needs of feeling abandon and I let them know I come back everyday after I get off work and if I do anything in evenings or weekends.
So PLEASE don't throw it up to me I got left for another woman.....READ THE FACTS and if you would like a copy of where I got the information for abuse I will be willing to send you a copy of it.
Thank You for listening, reading and understanding!
SO YES I HAVE MOVED ON AND I HAVE NEVER FELT BETTER FOR THE DECISION I HAVE MADE FOR FILING FOR DIVORCE! I JUST REGRET THAT I LET HIM PLAY ME AND USE ME WHEN I DID EVERYTHING TO MAKE OR MARRIAGE WORK BY BEING THEIR FOR HIM, SUPPORTING HIM FINANCIALLY, AND JUST CARING FOR HIM. So his new woman can support him all they want because i'm not anymore and I DON'T CARE WHAT HE DOES WITH HIS LIFE!
HE JUST NEEDS TO STEP UP AND BE A FATHER THAT WILL SUPPORT HIS KIDS FINANCIALLY, GIVE THEM GUIDANCE, AND SOME SECURITY!
I love my girls dearly and I will fight for them dearly. Can their father say he has done, in my opinion no. Because everytime he calls he cuss's me out still and everything is about him and when I talk to him I always mention the girls it's never about me and what I can't do, BECAUSE I CAN DO ANYTHING I SET MY MIND ACROSS TO DO! And thats what i'm doing too. So yes this is what I am still going through and hopefully it will be over soon. KEEPING FINGERS CROSSED AND PRAYING HARD THAT IT DOES. I'm also hoping to have a apartment for me and girls soon too just waiting for some people to decide to move somewhere else or they get their new place built and opened up!
SO LIFE CAN ONLY GET BETTER FROM HERE!
That's all I have to say today will be back on in a week or two. Oh and also we fouh we all three like to go too and thanks to my new friend Keomi. So going to go to church and get recommitted to the Father that is always their for and keeps my faith going!
